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Helping children become independent is one of the important goals of child rearing. The habit of independence will help children develop self-management skills, time management effectively for children to be more confident and independent. However, helping children become independent from an early age is not an easy task, so VSchool Secondary School suggests 7 methods to help children become independent early from childhood, especially for middle school students for parents to refer to.
Practice setting daily schedules with children
One of the best ways to help children become independent is to practice setting a daily schedule with them. This schedule includes activities such as waking up, having breakfast, studying, doing chores, exercising, and entertainment. By establishing a clear schedule, children will know what needs to be done and manage their time most effectively.
Encourage children to take on small tasks in the family
Parents should assign children small tasks in the family, which is a great way to encourage children’s independence. Parents can assign gentle tasks that match the child’s ability, such as tidying up the room, washing dishes, or assisting in cooking. By doing these tasks, children will learn how to manage their own work and develop independence.
Encourage children to make decisions
To help children become independent, parents need to encourage them to make their own decisions and act as advisors. Instead of assigning specific tasks to children, parents should encourage them to choose and make decisions within permissible limits, then analyze, evaluate, and explain to children if the choice or request is inappropriate. For example, ask the child what they want to eat for dinner or let the child decide when to do homework. This helps children develop decision-making skills and independence.
Encourage children to set goals and make plans
Guiding children to set goals and make plans is an important method to help develop the habit of independence in children. First, parents should explain to children the meaning and importance of setting goals and making plans. Then, encourage children to set short-term and long-term goals and make plans to achieve those goals through specific actions. All of these will help children develop time management skills and contribute to self-direction.
Encourage children to manage finances
Financial management is an important life skill and helps children become independent. Parents should encourage children to manage their pocket money by recording the amount of money they receive daily, weekly, or monthly, then guide them to divide and plan for that amount most effectively to gradually develop the habit of managing expenses and finances. By managing their own money, children will learn to budget, save, and make decisions about spending.
Let children face challenges
To help children become independent, parents need to encourage children to face challenges and solve problems on their own. Allow children to try new and more difficult tasks, such as doing a difficult homework assignment or participating in a new experiential activity or extracurricular activity. This helps children develop problem-solving skills, creativity, and confidence.
Encourage children to seek help when needed
Finally, parents should encourage children to seek help when needed. Independence does not mean doing everything alone, but knowing how to seek help when truly needed. Encourage children to ask for opinions, seek information, and seek help from experienced people. This also helps children develop communication skills and build relationships with people around them.
Helping children become independent is a long process that requires patience and guidance from parents. By applying the above methods, parents can help children develop the habit of independence from an early age and prepare for their future.
If parents want to know more about the teaching program and teaching methods of VSchool, they can visit the school or contact via phone number, website below:
- Address: No.1, Street No.1, An Lac A Ward, Binh Tan District, Ho Chi Minh City
- Phone number: 0976 898 726
- Website: https://vschoolsg.vn/
